top of page
Search

 Embracing Resilience: Finding Strength in the Storm

  • beckyonyett
  • Apr 7, 2024
  • 2 min read

In the world of social media and picture-perfect moments, it's easy to get caught up in the illusion that everyone else's life is nothing but sunshine and smiles. But the reality is far from that. Life is a rollercoaster of ups and downs, and sometimes, it feels like we're barely holding on.


I'll be the first to admit it: life isn't always a bed of sunflowers and smiley faces for me. Like many of us, I have my moments of doubt, frustration, and sadness. There are days when I just want to crawl back into bed and shut out the world, when the weight of it all feels too heavy to bear.


But here's the thing: those moments of darkness are just that—moments. They pass. And what pulls me through every time is resilience.


Resilience isn't about never feeling down or facing challenges. It's about bouncing back stronger each time life knocks you down. It's about acknowledging your emotions, allowing yourself to feel them, but not letting them define you.


When I find myself overwhelmed by negative thoughts and emotions, I ask myself a simple question: "Compared to what?" Sure, life may feel tough right now, but compared to what? Compared to the struggles of others, to the challenges I've overcome in the past, or to the dreams I'm working towards?


It's about shifting perspective. It's about realizing that, despite the hardships, there's still so much to be grateful for and so much potential for joy and growth.


So, yes, I cry. I get frustrated. I feel sad. But I don't let those moments consume me. Instead, I find the strength within myself to dry my tears, get out of bed, and face the world with renewed determination.


Resilience is the ultimate game-changer. It's what allows us to rise above adversity, to keep moving forward even when the road ahead seems daunting. It's what reminds us that we are capable of weathering any storm and emerging stronger on the other side.


So, to anyone out there who's feeling weighed down by life's challenges, remember this: you are stronger than you know, and you have the power to overcome whatever comes your way. Embrace your resilience, and watch as it transforms your darkest moments into opportunities for growth and triumph. After all, life may not always be easy, but it's certainly worth fighting for.

 
 
 

Recent Posts

See All
The End Of The Knife, The Beginning Of Me

15 December 2025. The final time I chose to go under the knife. Not because I was broken — but because I was ready to close a chapter. Unilateral knee surgery marked the end of a long medical road for

 
 
 
Tapping Into Leadership: It’s Time to Shine

Leadership. It’s one of those words that can feel big, bold, and maybe even a little intimidating. We often ask ourselves — What does it really look like? Will I be any good at it? Am I even ready? If

 
 
 
Finding Freedom, Flow, and Purpose

It’s hard to believe three months have already passed—honestly, I’m not even sure how! But what I am  sure of is the freedom I now feel,...

 
 
 

Comments


Subscribe Form

Thanks for submitting!

+6421 0820 3622

  • Twitter
  • LinkedIn

©2023 by Free-Your-Time. Proudly created with Wix.com

bottom of page